Intentional Living Monica Marotz Intentional Living Monica Marotz

What a Broken Roomba Taught Me About Intentional Living

Intentional living isn’t staged or aesthetic. Sometimes it’s sitting on the floor with a broken Roomba, choosing curiosity over panic, and realizing you’re more capable than you think.

Intentional living isn’t staged.
It doesn’t happen with perfect lighting, matching outfits, or a curated moment.

Sometimes it happens sitting on the floor with a vacuum that suddenly won’t move.

That was me this week.

My Roomba — fully charged, no warning, no drama — just stopped working. It lit up, blinked at me, and refused to go anywhere. And for a split second, I felt that familiar urge: Maybe it’s time for a new one.

But I paused.

And that pause turned into a small, ordinary moment that reminded me what intentional living actually looks like.

The Pause Before Replacement

I didn’t open Amazon.
I didn’t price out new models.
I didn’t decide it was “just old.”

Instead, I sat there and thought, Let’s figure this out.

Intentional living, for me, often starts right there — choosing curiosity over panic. Choosing to stay present with a problem instead of immediately outsourcing it to a purchase.

Fixing Instead of Replacing

I flipped the Roomba over and started with the basics:

  • Cleaning the brushes

  • Removing hair buildup

  • Checking the wheels

  • Paying attention to what it was doing, not just that it wasn’t working

It would start… move a foot… then stop with a blinking error light.

So I kept going.

Eventually, I focused on the front caster wheel — a small part most people never think twice about. I cleaned it thoroughly, reinstalled it, and tried again. Still nothing.

Then, almost instinctively, I tried something different.

I removed the front wheel entirely and started the Roomba without it.

And it worked.

I turned it off, put the wheel back in, restarted it — and suddenly, everything was fine.

No replacement.
No repair shop.
Just a reset that needed patience and attention.

The Lesson Was Bigger Than the Vacuum

This wasn’t really about fixing a Roomba.

It was about remembering that:

  • Not everything broken needs to be replaced

  • Frustration doesn’t mean failure

  • Most problems don’t need urgency — they need presence

Intentional living isn’t about doing everything perfectly. It’s about trusting yourself to slow down, observe, and engage with what’s right in front of you.

Sometimes the fix isn’t buying something new — it’s giving yourself a minute to think.

Why These Small Moments Matter

We live in a world that constantly nudges us toward:

  • Faster solutions

  • Newer versions

  • Easier replacements

But there’s something grounding about solving a small, everyday problem on your own. It builds confidence. It reinforces capability. It reminds you that you don’t have to react — you can respond.

Today it was a Roomba.

Tomorrow it might be something else.

And that’s intentional living — practiced quietly, daily, without an audience.

Final Thought

Intentional living isn’t aesthetic.
It isn’t curated.
It isn’t perfect.

Sometimes it’s just staying calm on the floor, trusting yourself, and realizing you already have what you need.

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